Wednesday, May 10, 2006

Jerkalicious

We all have about 100 OR more people living inside us,and that they aren't all nice? At times the inner charmer comes out after a few martinis, at times the romantic shows up on special evenings, at times the crusader gives a special visit and shows geniune concern for the down-trodden, But then there's the "DARK" or "BLACK" side of us - the loner, the whiner, the complainer, the cynic, or the jerk.

The jerk part of many of us has way too much power And it's a shame, because when the jerk comes out, relationships tend to get off track or fail completely. But there's another way to deal with jerks -- and it leads to get fulfillment and success in relationships. let's call it "jerk management." That's right, jerks can be helped ! There's always a reason someone is being a jerk, and it's usually one of two things: They are fearing the loss of something or they are feeling emotionally insecure. Most jerks are sensitive people who don't know how to handle their feelings and are literally screaming for reassurance.

Reassurance is the key word........the above lines are dedicated to the man in my life.I am going to do my best to avoid the jerk in me.loveeeeeee you.