innocence lost

to hell wid da jitters

I've been getting this rather disturbing feeling off late...Are they bridal jitters or something?
I know that I'll be terribly homesick, would cry at the smallest of things and would want to rush back home.
But isn't love like that...When you first thought of marrying you had doubts about the whole thing.
Then you fell in love and everything was ok. I am sure every bride (and groom?) goes through these pre-marital blues but then love conquers all.

Its jus a phase PS! it'll pass soon! The important part is that you are with someone you love...
just go with the flow...
these are just bridal jitters,
life is so full of them..childhood tantrums, teenage anxieties, bridal jitters, pregnancy problems, middle-age crisis, retirement worries and finally, geriatric grievances....

A wedding round the corner and you can feel it from afar. A feeling of elation and the excitement to start a new life with your partner, a wonderful feeling indeed!
But deep down there you are a little frenzied, nervous and there is an unknown fear inside. It becomes rather difficult for you to understand where all your anxieties actually stem from
Reflect upon what you enjoy most about each other. The factors that make you think you'll be happy together and what is really important to you in life and love. Tell him how much you love him and look forward to your future together. But also get your fears and anxieties out.

Go to a quiet place to 'listen' to your feelings away from the pressures of the forthcoming wedding
Remember and accept the fact that no matter how well you know each other, life after marriage changes with new responsibilities and duties coming in. Thus getting pre-wedding jitters is normal
It's not an epidemic. It's not a ''bug
lets call it 'wedding -itis'
It is natural to get cold feet. Keep in mind that you are not the first person to experience this and many brides and grooms experience the pre-wedding jitters. Remember there's a reason you said yes in the first place.
reflect on the mutual love and affection you feel for each other. Again, remember you said "Yes" for very solid reasons and as you build a life with your spouse the benefits of marriage will confirm that you have taken the right step.
i know what ure going through....i feel the same....i feel like i should have a mobile bathroom wid me....jokes aside i love u...n love will conquer all......dun worry we will be fine togetha...i promise....

posted by munmun @ 9:51 AM