Wednesday, May 10, 2006

Jerkalicious

We all have about 100 OR more people living inside us,and that they aren't all nice? At times the inner charmer comes out after a few martinis, at times the romantic shows up on special evenings, at times the crusader gives a special visit and shows geniune concern for the down-trodden, But then there's the "DARK" or "BLACK" side of us - the loner, the whiner, the complainer, the cynic, or the jerk.

The jerk part of many of us has way too much power And it's a shame, because when the jerk comes out, relationships tend to get off track or fail completely. But there's another way to deal with jerks -- and it leads to get fulfillment and success in relationships. let's call it "jerk management." That's right, jerks can be helped ! There's always a reason someone is being a jerk, and it's usually one of two things: They are fearing the loss of something or they are feeling emotionally insecure. Most jerks are sensitive people who don't know how to handle their feelings and are literally screaming for reassurance.

Reassurance is the key word........the above lines are dedicated to the man in my life.I am going to do my best to avoid the jerk in me.loveeeeeee you.

2 Comments:

At 12:27 PM , Blogger Diabolic said...

hmmm...so grl wat is it wid licious these days.. :P
newys...lyk de new wrd u coined!!
u ll hav gr8 life ahead...i hav a feelin inside..wich says tat to me...jus keep de faith..;)

 
At 1:18 AM , Blogger manny singh said...

Well here i am with my first ever blog bull!!!
All i want to say is to that special someone who has recently entered my life that being a jerk at times is a part of everyones life....it is an unavoidable part without which we all remain incomplete....
The trick is to manage the jerk in u...its the ability within oneself to get on top of things to avoid the jerkiness from coming out
But at times reasons for being a jerk are need for attention and love...but if u get enough of it..well then its all good...and sometimes its just there cause u just feel like being a dickhead.
But my love..there will be a time..when my soul will be all yours and it is then that even being a jerk will be overlooked..all things negative will be overlooked because we will be connected by something stronger in our lives...something above all of us...the connection of love, understanding and respect...a bond so unbreakable...that it will take more than jerkiness to create any sort of rift if any.

I am blessed...i have always been blessed...i am not blowing my own horn here..i am nice guy but not all the times...i can be a real dick at times....i disrespect people i love sometimes...but at the end of the day i feel that somewhere or the other i must be doing things right to some extent that the man upstairs overlooks or forgives me for my wrongs and lets me move on..

I have started to love u...the feelings are undeniable...and i fall more and more in love each day...and i know it is now not in my hands...not in my grasp to avoid this feeling..and i dont want to either..i want to fall deep in love...a feeling that i have never felt before...a feeling that i have heard about ....a feeling that i am now ready to accept....the willingness this time to hand over my heart to u is overwhelming...

so if and when i do..hang onto it carefully....cause hearts offered on a platter with such conviction break real easily.... and i am the kind of wimp that wont be able to mend my broken heart..

Here is to us....
I will love u till....well there is no limit!!!!!
Thank you for letting me come into your life and making it our life
I AM BLESSED AND PROUD OF IT
CIAO MY LOVE

 

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